Direct answer
What should I do after a retailer agrees to a first wholesale order?
Confirm the order in writing before you make or ship anything. Restate the items, quantities, unit wholesale price, total, delivery date, who pays carriage and the payment terms, and ask the buyer to reply to accept. Then re-check the margin at the real carriage cost, label the goods for retail sale, invoice on the agreed terms, and book a date to ask how it sold.
A verbal yes is not an order
"Send me six" in a shop doorway, or one line in a reply that says the buyer is interested, is an intention. It does not yet say which six, at what price, delivered when, paid how. Every one of those gaps is a place where you and the buyer can be remembering different conversations three weeks later, and the person holding the stock loses that argument.
Write the order back to the buyer before anything is made or picked. One short message with the exact items and variants, the quantity of each, the unit wholesale price, the order total, the delivery or collection date, who is paying for carriage, and the payment terms. Ask them to reply to confirm. A reply that says yes is your order.
If your buyer works for anything larger than a single independent shop, ask whether they need to raise a purchase order number. Plenty of finance systems will not pay an invoice that does not carry one, and finding that out after you have delivered turns a thirty day term into a ninety day one.
Re-run the arithmetic on this order, not on the price list
Your wholesale price was set against a normal order. A first order is often smaller than normal, and the costs that do not scale down with it are the ones that decide whether it pays. Carriage is the usual culprit: a single carton to one address can cost more per unit than a pallet, and if you quoted delivered pricing you have just absorbed that difference.
Add up what this specific order costs you: landed cost of the units, the outer packaging, the carriage you are actually paying rather than the one on the price list, any payment or platform fee, and the labelling work below if you are doing it by hand. Subtract that from the order total. If the answer is thin but positive and the buyer is one you want, that is a considered decision. If it is negative, say so now and offer the minimum quantity that works, because renegotiating after delivery is not a conversation you can win.
Who pays carriage, and the point at which the goods become the buyer's problem, are the two questions that cause the most disputes on a first order. The ICC's Incoterms rules exist precisely to name those handover points, and even if you never quote a three letter code, deciding the same two things in plain words in your confirmation message does the same job.
Pack for a shelf, not for a doorstep
A direct-to-consumer parcel is finished when it arrives. A wholesale delivery is finished when the shop can put it out. Those are different jobs. Anything that a member of staff has to unpick, relabel or price by hand is a reason not to reorder, and it is rarely mentioned to you as the reason.
Ask the buyer three questions before you pack: does each unit need a retail price on it or will they price it themselves, do they need a barcode scannable at their till, and how do they want the outer cartons labelled. Barcodes are where small suppliers most often get caught out, because the retailer needs a number that is unique to your product rather than one you invented. GS1's Global Trade Item Number is the identifier most retail systems expect, and obtaining one takes long enough that it should not start on the day you pack.
Put a delivery note in the box, listing the same lines as the confirmation, and put your own reference on it. Include your contact and, if you can, a single page telling shop staff what the product is and who buys it. The person opening the carton is usually not the person who agreed to the order.
Invoice on the terms you actually agreed
Decide before delivery whether this order is paid up front or on terms, and invoice the way you said you would. Payment in advance on a first order is normal for a new supplier and is not an insult, provided you said so while the buyer was still deciding rather than after they had committed. Introducing it at the last moment reads as distrust and costs you the second order.
If you do give terms, write down when the clock starts. Thirty days from invoice date, from delivery date, or from end of month are three different amounts of credit, and the difference matters a lot more to a small supplier than to the shop. Send the invoice on the day you ship rather than at the end of the month, because the term cannot start on an invoice that does not exist yet.
Keep the confirmation, the delivery note and the invoice showing the same lines and the same total. Any mismatch between those three is the most common reason a small wholesale invoice sits unpaid, and chasing it costs you more than the discrepancy.
Book the restock conversation before you deliver
The first order is a test the shop is running on your product, and the result appears on their shelf rather than in your inbox. If you wait for them to tell you how it went, you will usually hear nothing and conclude, wrongly, that it failed.
Agree a date while you still have their attention. Something like: "Shall I check in around the middle of October and see how it has moved?" A buyer will usually give you a realistic window, and that window tells you how quickly they expect their own customers to find the product. Put it in your calendar with the order details attached so the check-in can be specific.
When the date arrives, ask about sell-through rather than about a reorder. How many are left, which variant went first, and did anyone ask for something you do not make. Those answers are worth more than the reorder itself, because they are the only direct read you get on how your product performs in a shop you do not control.
What a first order does and does not tell you
A completed first order proves that one buyer was willing to try you, that your pricing cleared their margin requirement, and that you can fulfil to a retail standard. Those are real and they are worth having.
It does not prove that the product sells through, that the category is right, or that the price is right. One shop is one data point, and a shop can hold stock for months without reordering or telling you why. Do not price the next quarter, order inventory, or describe yourself as stocked by a channel on the strength of it. Wait until you have sell-through from more than one shop before you treat any of that as settled.
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Frequently asked questions
Should I ask for payment up front on a first wholesale order?
It is reasonable and common for a new supplier, but only if you say so before the buyer commits. Put the payment terms in the same message that confirms the items and the price, so the buyer accepts the whole arrangement at once. Introducing prepayment after a yes is the change most likely to lose you the order.
What should a delivery note include?
The same lines as the order confirmation: each item and variant, the quantity of each, your order reference and the buyer's purchase order number if they gave you one, plus your contact details and the delivery date. It does not need prices. Its job is to let whoever opens the carton check the contents against what was agreed without phoning anyone.
The retailer wants a lower price than my line sheet. What do I do?
Work out what the order actually costs you before answering, because the honest floor is arithmetic rather than nerve. If you can move, move something that is not the unit price: a larger quantity at the same rate, carriage shared, or a longer lead time. If you cut the headline price on a first order, that is the price for every order after it and for anyone the buyer talks to.
How long should I wait before asking how the product is selling?
Ask the buyer to name the window rather than guessing. For most independent retail a first useful check-in is somewhere between four and eight weeks, long enough for the stock to have been out on the shelf through a normal trading pattern. Agree the date before you deliver, while the conversation is still live.
Do I need barcodes to sell wholesale?
It depends entirely on the buyer. Many independent shops price and track by hand and will never ask. Anything with a till system expecting a unique product number usually will, and the identifier most retail systems expect is a GS1 Global Trade Item Number. Ask the question before you pack, because obtaining one is not a same-day job.
Does CarryLeads handle the order after a retailer says yes?
No. CarryLeads finds and shortlists business prospects from what you describe and where, scores them for fit, and prepares editable outreach copy. It does not send messages, raise orders, produce invoices or track fulfilment. Everything on this page is yours to run, because you are the one accountable for the terms you agree.